had a brief Twitter rant
Gentlemen, we need to talk about your brethren’s propensity on OKCupid to present what is likely their worst selves.
And the worst selves’ traits are usually disrespectful, idle, lazy, incurious, childish and devoid of anything worth communing with.
I believe that all potential life partners should witness us at our worst selves at some point, but not casual sex partners.
It is possible to weather worst selves when that interaction involves some basic respect. Not so much disrespectful, obnoxious attitudes.
When at your worst you can’t display a modicum of respect, you don’t really deserve to have people sticking around waiting for your best.
Although I feel the messages I receive are demonstrating baseline selves which, tbh, aren’t the least bit attractive, either.
People talk about women’s resting bitch faces. No one talks about men’s resting asshole mouths.
Thing is, women can read each other’s “bitch faces” and know them to be neutral. Men’s resting asshole mouths are indubitably fulla shit.
Even when they are trying to be nice, what comes out of those resting asshole mouths is still fulla shit.
men are proven to be capable of curtailing those asshole mouths, esp around other men they RESPECT
When I speak of the resting asshole mouth I speak of when they are in neutral gear like resting bitch faces
Judging by the re-tweets I’m guessing that “men’s resting asshole mouth” is resonating with a lot of people.