Merf. Thinking is Hard.The reason why when you tell a woman “you’re beautiful” and she denies it is because for her ENTIRE LIFE she’s been told she’s anything but… especially if she’s a woman of color.
Or fat.
Or differently abled.
Or [insert anything that isn’t thin, able bodied, blonde haired and blue eyed].
Except if you’re 200 pounds you probably aren’t attractive at all anyways so theres a good reason you’ve never had many compliments at that point.
Arg. I just caught up and I’m sorry that this beautiful sentiment is being tainted by this.
—- Now for the simple bitch ——-
She didn’t say ” attractive” she said BEAUTIFUL, but the fact that you changed it tells me all I need to know.
The fact that you did it after I posted that if.. irks me.
The fact that you put in the weight did makes me think it’s personal .
But the fact that you think you can use me to get at folks makes me involved.
And like I said your word choice tells me all I need to know . Now I’m not usually one for armchair psych , especially on a rude, posing, trying to trade her submissiveness, and attractiveness for care , as designed by HOT TOPIC and angora magazine basic wench.
But you’re about to be an object lesson.
Because it’s hard as Christina said to accept being loved and desired in a world that doesn’t understand either word real well when not applied to the supposed ideal. It’s so hard because they would rather change it and the meaning than let you work towards receiving it.
See me I been BIG I was OVER 300 pounds and you know what. I never stopped being complimented on my skin,face,eyes,lips shit even my figure.
But that cherished thing, that worshipped perfection ideal you seems attached to?
NOPE
Never , and probably never gonna. So I thought like you get myself to the gym, workout starve etc.
Things would Change!!!
Except me and you found out the same thing didn’t we.
It didn’t change who I fundamentally was .
it must be doubly hard for you. Because you worked hard at being attractive right?
You got your ass to the gym, you lost the weight,
You like the kinky sex.You wanna be under someone’s foot
You’re not scared of the dark .
and still
you got this post featuring FAT women getting all this attention about being beautiful and not knowing what to do with it.
You worked so hard to get all these compliments , you earned the right. You’re a member of the attractive club!
And yes you can be snide and snarky and show these lardos the TRUTH!
Except they get 100 of notes of love
and people are in your inbox supporting them and
calling you out
and you can’t tell them how to feel.
And you did EVERYTHING .
You’re hot!
and you like sex and you wanna be somebody’s little cumslut
and you like games and horror
and you can’t get that beautiful
and these fat bitches with their fat legs and their nerve of being alive
have multiple people who want THEM to feel beautiful without having to do a thing!
And you WERE ONE AND YOU NEVER HAD THAT!
And that’s your opinion and it only gets 5 notes and you have pages and pages of asks of these folks coming after you
and you sweat, and you’ll bark and you wanna be held down and you’re good but interesting
and still
you can’t even look at beautiful attached to these people , so you make it attractive and hope that explains that empty place in between who you were, who you are and what you want.
and maybe you don’t have it but you’ll be damned if any of these folks see you back down
so you try to two line snark on someone who gets that so much they have to explain why it’s hard for them.
cause god forbid we notice that you so far away for feeling beautiful you can’t understand what it means
so we make it attractive.
(via karnythia)
